I lost my virginity early, on the top deck of a red bus, parked in High Wycombe bus garage. It was about 1 am and the bus garage was next door to the nightclub I’d been in. The man was called Chris (I think). It ended abruptly when someone else started coming upstairs, and I doubt either of us enjoyed it much…
I then met my first long time boyfriend at the age of 16. We had regular enthusiastic sex, with a naive and internet free level of kink to it which I definitely enjoyed.
In my early 20’s I met my long term partner. He was kind and safe. Sex was straight forward and satisfying but started to fade away in my early 30’s. He ran away with his mates wife in my mid 30’s. He came back a few months later, but we haven’t had sex since. He’s still kind and safe though.
I took a lover in my early 30’s. A good friend who was happily married, but liked a bit of variety. We had some interesting and creative outdoor encounters every few months, mainly because there was nowhere else to go…
Things petered out by the beginning of my 40’s. I lived a sexless life for 6 or 7 years and had decided that was probably it for me. No more sex. Not by choice, but circumstance.
A chance comment I made on a saucy blog, read on vanilla twitter led to a brief, very kinky time with a younger man. He liked to be dominated. Tied up, fucked, spanked… I played my part in an eagerness to please, not because I had any tendencies in that area, or so I thought… except when I made him stand naked, handcuffed, blindfolded, up against a cool wall, as I stood in just a shirt and stockings and striped his arse with my crop, I could feel my excitement dribble down my inner thigh. Maybe I liked this more than I thought.
My dormant sex drive was reawaken just as his disappeared and I was left, horny and frustrated. From there I ran straight into the arms of naughty Twitter.
The rest you know. I met my love. We have a sex life I couldn’t have imagined in my earlier years. I’ve discovered that where I was turned on by spanking another, being the recipient takes me to a whole other level!
I turn 50 on Monday and am finally having the time of my life. I’ve never been happier.
There are those of you who might question why I stay with my partner (it’s because I love him). There are those who will frown on my having a lover (it’s because I love him too). It’s how life works for me, and long may it stay this way.
Looking forward to my 50’s …